The Turtle's Sonnet

Shall I compare you to the winter,
Thou are cooler than the month of December,
Weather gets colder, but my ice gets warmer.
melting and melting till it becomes water.

The lights are grey, the end is not clear,
We can stay or we can move further,
Does it matter? I always wonder.
One thing for sure, my feelings will never flutter.
Slipping with shoes, the pit gets deeper,
The more I know you, I fell more deeper.

The rabbits holding the turtles hand,
walking while racing,
For money, people work like ants, trying to grab the skies and the lands.
We care for our friends, we savour helping.
Ensuring other's smiles are filled, that's just our thing.
Walls are visible, the one I don't want to go for,
She's just that special, the prettiest creature I ever fell for.

The bale utter he looked paltry bit,
He then delivers she's worth it, worth a thousand miles,
She makes me smile,
She makes me cry,
Above all, she makes me feel alive.

Round 1 over, round 2 starts,
It doesn't matter, how many runs or darts,
As long as I'm with her, the path will never go down.
No matter where we are, we are standing on common ground.
Both our feet and our minds surround.
Needles and sticks on the ground, any obstacles we can find.
Lets go together, never leave me behind.

Dying

Everyone die. At some point. Some may be earlier than the other. Every living creature will die eventually.

 We live in a range of life God gave us, let it be 60years, 80years or 100 or even if it just 17.  No one knows how long if their life and when will they fall.

Should we be thinking of dying? For some it must sounds sadistic, pessimist or goths. The reality is we should, absolutely. Start ask yourself "what happen if I die today?" "How do I want to die?".

You see, with this thing in our mind then only we start doing things that matters in our life. If we are going to die tomorrow, we want to die smiling, knowing we did everything we want, we achieve everything.
So ask yourself what you want to do before you die, what do you want to accomplish, what else you have not attain. Don't just ask, try to get it. Maybe you wont get it tomorrow or next week but at least you are trying for it and you are on the right track. Like I always said,-just try hard, don't think about it u will succeed or fail.
Either it is having a loved family, or making changes for the country, or saving people's lives, world peace, want to be famous, anything. What is your goal in life?

As how do we want to die- A pirate wants to die in the ocean on his ship, a soldier wants to die on battlefield, a racer wants to die on track, a fireman dies of fire after rescuing a kid from it, maybe Madam Curie happy she died because of radiation, a criminal dies gladly on execution, a guy might want to die in his sleep in his house with his family.
With that being said we must have thought of how we are going to expire. Getting shot while protecting our family, die holding gun protecting the country, dying giving birth to a child, or so many more that you must have the thoughts of I don't know.

So this is a short article, simple but I guess it explains a lot.

As for myself, I have not yet bring about what I want in my life but I am sure I am on the right track. Dreams and ambitions take years to fulfil. I hope when the time comes, we can leave the world happily.

Success.

Success with a big S. Its meaning differ from people to people. What I meant with a capital S is the success in life. You succeed your life when you feel like you are ready to go, arbitrarily die smiling.
So, how do you succeed? Achieve these 4 things:-

1. Academic

- one can say that they are successful based on their academic records. Obviously its what people nowadays really emphasise on it, even candidate for election must have good academic tracks. Even parents are proud if their children aced their exams. Why academic is momentous? 1. it does say that you have a fast learning brain and 2. It says that you are dedicated and willing to be hardworking. Anyway people who donnishly succeed has succeed one part of life.

2. Morality

- morality.. self righteousness.. conscience or whatever you want to call it, living with it is a success itself. To answer why first we must know what is moral? It is concerned with principles of right and wrong or conforming to standards of behavior and character based on those principles. So people who can live with their moral high means that they successfully living as what they think is right, what they their nature think its right, what they think others will think its right. Imagine a rich happy living easily but deep inside he always feel that what he is doing is wrong and in the end he died thinking that he did the wrong thing. Thus, you are consider success if you can live up to your chaste.

3. Life skills

- Having a lots of life skills make you triumph. As much as you can you should learn, any skill and knowledge is useful. For the obvious choice for life like cooking, sewing, fixing things, computer skills, camping and etc. And then there is art finesse - drawing, painting, writing, carving or anything related. There is physical aptitude sports and such and the biggest life skill is the human skill - communication, social, public speaking and many more. Human skill what makes a leader or a politician. Try gain as many skills as you can (learn!) and if you know you have the human skill means you have the voice to influence others therefore you have a responsibility.

4. Mission and vision

- success is not success in the first place if you don't even have a mission, vision, target, goal... There's no use for a runner to sweat panting run as fast as he could without knowing where to go. In your life, you must have a mission, normally one very big with other small ones. The big one is something you hope to achieve in a very long time such as becoming a heart surgeon get married to the love of your life with many kids. Or having your voice heard by the world so that you can do something about world peace. Or building your name to fame so that you be remembered after you die. Or a sustained company under your name that your next of kin and the next and the next of them will take care of-ensuring your whole bloodlines will live easily. The small ones include passing your coming exams, finishing 1st place in a competition or anything actually. When you have a mission and a vision, then you will strive very hard for it.. and when you do achieve it, you know you have been successful in your life because that's what you always wanted for your life from the beginning.

Past, Present, Future

Now. Tomorrow. Yesterday. What happen yesterday? What should I do now? What should I do for tomorrow?
What is the significance about these 3. As today I'm classifying people living under these 3 headings

1. Past

Those who live in  past are people who cant let go of something that happen. Normally these are unfortunate tragedies like losing someone we love, heartbreak, major failure or anything related. Normally this kind will be tone as depressed, cant accept happiness and tend to push people away, they can also start doing lot of unnecessary things for themselves for them to fill their lonely life such as smoking, drugs abuse, fighting, petty crimes such as stealing.
Thus for those who dwell on their past, the only thing you can do is either let time heals itself... or find other reasons to live such as someone else to love or someone else you need to protect. Learn to accept that the past cant be undone and it will never come back, take lesson and move on. If there is hope then do something, anything on whatever it is, before its too late, if you fail-then it is just not meant to be... don't regret anything later on. Not doing is always worse than fail. If you know you have tried your best believe me you wont regret thus you have nothing to cling on your past

2. Present

Everyone live on present time so why does it matter it is a group of people itself. People who live for the present.. commonly teenagers and early adolescent... are people who all the times enjoying, living every second of their life and never worry about their future or past. They are happy with boilerplate as long as they don't need to work hard for it. They do things they enjoy though something else can pay more. They don't really save money for their future, shopaholics.. they smile all the time and are always happy. These people thinks and stay positive. Make lemonades out of lemons.
Advice for you who live for the present, though it is a good thing that you live happily with not much worries, at some point you need to start thinking about your future, save money for it, ensure it will be happy as it is now. We are not young forever. Whatever coming must be prepared.

3. Future

A faction of human live for their future. Big one perhaps. We can termed them as workaholics. All works and no play make Jack. They pose as a very hardworking people. Like robots working nights and days doing the same routine everyday. Either studying for exams or working to earn money, the single thing important to them is having a bright future even if it means having hard times on the time being. They will save money as much as they can until the notice the are old enough to work let to spent it.
Just know that the future is unpredictable and you cant always expect something to go smooth. Whatever obstacles coming you have to face them, with that being said, we live on present so don't just focus on the future because you don't know if tomorrow's your last day. Make full use of today doing things for yourself for today as well as for the future.

This is me seeing people living for these 3 basics timeline of them.Signing off I just want to say that we should balance the 3 reasons of living. Lessons from past, smile for the present, plan and work for brighter future.

Characters and personality- changes

What is it about characters and personality? most of you probably have an idea about what is it. What about them that they are imperative for me to talk about them.

First, characteristics are what others see you as, what people look at you as who you are. Example- your clothes, appearances make up and all, your taste of attires, cars, gadgets and sometimes even your habits and behaviours can constitute to it. Talking too much or too loud. Passive while spending whole day lying on bed, quiet and anti social. Many more. You can think about your own characteristics by now right?
Picture a guy, very messy wavy long hair, smoking a cigar, wearing brown dirty leather accouterments, with a guitar in his hand. What will your perception of his be? commonly you will think he is an uneducated musician who is kind of atrocious, a lazy one perhaps.

Second, how personality comes, this is something which is inside a person, a trait, or the heart, the interest. It cant really be change. Like someone who really likes kids. A boy who is very soft and teary. A strong woman.Natural athlete who likes to play all sports. A straight forward guy who does not know how to lie or how to care about people feelings. Being too matured for own age. High IQ level. Interests and passions. And so much of that by now I hope you can figure out yours.
So regarding the guy above, now imagine he is actually a very rich master of applied maths in a world known University, dressing neatly with shirts and shoes on campus. He is a very kind dad who always help his family, other people also donates to charity. But every time he hangs out somewhere with his friend, he wants to appear how he wants public to see him, not as a professor.

Characteristics might be deceiving, but it is what people will see you first. Whats the importance of characters that it differs from personality. Characters can be change. You just need the proper motivation and determination for it. Smoking habits, drugs, taste of clothes, daily activities, flirting, bad temper- all of these can change for a cause or maybe with time. On contrary personality cant be change, a guy who likes kids will always likes kids because its in his heart. You cant asked someone who likes arts drawing painting to stop drawing and play sports. I think that pretty much explain everything.

In conclusion, there is limit in changing. There is so much you can change but if you try to change your personality, you will be torturing yourself. People need to accept you of your personality, not your characters. But the fact that Changes -for you people, just know that one day you will find your logic to change, either its someone or something happen with your life. What ever you think you are doing is not right, quit and starts doing the right thing. Because one day you might lose something that you love the most and its too late, you will anguish how your life passed and how much you want to change it if you can. Its never too late to change

Lies and acts.

Lying, I'm sure almost everyone has lie. If this world is a theatre then we are actors and actresses. Why do people lie?? Are there bad and white lies?

People lie to save themselves out of situation,
People lie when they did something they not proud of,
People lie when they want to hide from something,
People lie when they are afraid of the truth,
People lie when they want to make an excuse to leave from something..

And as they are so many other reasons, what people don't know is, lying is addictive. Once we lied and success, we want to lie again. Trying to get away from everything with lies though the truth can cut it. The feeling of getting away from lying is pleasure.

Sequence to a lie, an act. After deceive, liars need to keep a straight face, need to fake expressions, surprised or a poker face like they don't know a thing about what people are talking about.

Once you start lying and acting, you know the world is just an opera and you are the actor/actress. You keep on doing it, never get bored of it. Lies on top of lies on top of lies. There's no coming back from what you have said. Really in a matter of time, your life is not real anymore. Well.. maybe most of it.


And white lies.. what is white lies. For all I know it is only a lie you tell to make peace of two company. The others if you heard they are just lies that people tell for them to feel good about their lies.

So, just want to tell you guys if you have not lie yet, don't start. And if its not too late to come clean, then you know what you have to do. Put your superego first. Increased morality of yourself. Be right. Don't fake your own life.

Human Psychology

Last week I had this psychology 101 and now it makes more sense to me. Human nature.
Basically human psyche consists of 3 things which is called as the psychic triads. - 1. Id. 2. Ego 3. Superego. What is it actually?

Id is the feel of pleasure, more to like I'm doing everything for myself, I'm thinking for my own good, what I like and want to do.

Then ego is reality, thinking of surrounding is it worth doing, what will happen if i do this.

Superego actually means morality... should i do this.. is it nice to do.. guilty conscience. Thus make superego the opposite of Id.

Take an example, John wants to kick Andy ass because he thinks that Andy looks annoying. So his Id will tell him yeah kick him, he looks disgusting and you will get the satisfaction from it. And then the ego will do the calculation, can I kick him? he looks bigger than me, what if I'm the one who will get thrashed in the end, or what if he cries and his dad comes... And so even if John thinks he is able to Andy's butt, superego will hit him in, and thus says, is it really right to kick him, poor little boy he didn't do anything wrong.

One more to make it clear, college kid, lets named him Nash. Nash is so tired and he doesn't want to go to class one day, his Id will tell him I should bunk and continue my sleep, its so nice to sleep now, or maybe I can wake up late and watch movie today... Ego will go as what will I miss if I missed today's class, I think i can still wake up and go, or should I rest because my body is exhausted. Last the superego will say it is wrong to bunk class, your parent has paid for your college fees.. Got me?

You guys understand right? So at the end its about the balance of this triangle. But even if that so, everyone's triangle is different, they are not equilateral. Some might have bigger Id than Superego and some ego than Id. Therefore pertaining to my thoughts on human and what they live for. Its inside the human brain and you should know how to balance this three.