Thursday, January 16, 2014

Success.



Success with a big S. Its meaning differ from people to people. What I meant with a capital S is the success in life. You succeed your life when you feel like you are ready to go, arbitrarily die smiling.
So, how do you succeed? Achieve these 4 things:-

1. Academic

- one can say that they are successful based on their academic records. Obviously its what people nowadays really emphasise on it, even candidate for election must have good academic tracks. Even parents are proud if their children aced their exams. Why academic is momentous? 1. it does say that you have a fast learning brain and 2. It says that you are dedicated and willing to be hardworking. Anyway people who donnishly succeed has succeed one part of life.

2. Morality

- morality.. self righteousness.. conscience or whatever you want to call it, living with it is a success itself. To answer why first we must know what is moral? It is concerned with principles of right and wrong or conforming to standards of behavior and character based on those principles. So people who can live with their moral high means that they successfully living as what they think is right, what they their nature think its right, what they think others will think its right. Imagine a rich happy living easily but deep inside he always feel that what he is doing is wrong and in the end he died thinking that he did the wrong thing. Thus, you are consider success if you can live up to your chaste.

3. Life skills

- Having a lots of life skills make you triumph. As much as you can you should learn, any skill and knowledge is useful. For the obvious choice for life like cooking, sewing, fixing things, computer skills, camping and etc. And then there is art finesse - drawing, painting, writing, carving or anything related. There is physical aptitude sports and such and the biggest life skill is the human skill - communication, social, public speaking and many more. Human skill what makes a leader or a politician. Try gain as many skills as you can (learn!) and if you know you have the human skill means you have the voice to influence others therefore you have a responsibility.

4. Mission and vision

- success is not success in the first place if you don't even have a mission, vision, target, goal... There's no use for a runner to sweat panting run as fast as he could without knowing where to go. In your life, you must have a mission, normally one very big with other small ones. The big one is something you hope to achieve in a very long time such as becoming a heart surgeon get married to the love of your life with many kids. Or having your voice heard by the world so that you can do something about world peace. Or building your name to fame so that you be remembered after you die. Or a sustained company under your name that your next of kin and the next and the next of them will take care of-ensuring your whole bloodlines will live easily. The small ones include passing your coming exams, finishing 1st place in a competition or anything actually. When you have a mission and a vision, then you will strive very hard for it.. and when you do achieve it, you know you have been successful in your life because that's what you always wanted for your life from the beginning.

Saturday, January 4, 2014

Past, Present, Future

Now. Tomorrow. Yesterday. What happen yesterday? What should I do now? What should I do for tomorrow?
What is the significance about these 3. As today I'm classifying people living under these 3 headings

1. Past

Those who live in  past are people who cant let go of something that happen. Normally these are unfortunate tragedies like losing someone we love, heartbreak, major failure or anything related. Normally this kind will be tone as depressed, cant accept happiness and tend to push people away, they can also start doing lot of unnecessary things for themselves for them to fill their lonely life such as smoking, drugs abuse, fighting, petty crimes such as stealing.
Thus for those who dwell on their past, the only thing you can do is either let time heals itself... or find other reasons to live such as someone else to love or someone else you need to protect. Learn to accept that the past cant be undone and it will never come back, take lesson and move on. If there is hope then do something, anything on whatever it is, before its too late, if you fail-then it is just not meant to be... don't regret anything later on. Not doing is always worse than fail. If you know you have tried your best believe me you wont regret thus you have nothing to cling on your past

2. Present

Everyone live on present time so why does it matter it is a group of people itself. People who live for the present.. commonly teenagers and early adolescent... are people who all the times enjoying, living every second of their life and never worry about their future or past. They are happy with boilerplate as long as they don't need to work hard for it. They do things they enjoy though something else can pay more. They don't really save money for their future, shopaholics.. they smile all the time and are always happy. These people thinks and stay positive. Make lemonades out of lemons.
Advice for you who live for the present, though it is a good thing that you live happily with not much worries, at some point you need to start thinking about your future, save money for it, ensure it will be happy as it is now. We are not young forever. Whatever coming must be prepared.

3. Future

A faction of human live for their future. Big one perhaps. We can termed them as workaholics. All works and no play make Jack. They pose as a very hardworking people. Like robots working nights and days doing the same routine everyday. Either studying for exams or working to earn money, the single thing important to them is having a bright future even if it means having hard times on the time being. They will save money as much as they can until the notice the are old enough to work let to spent it.
Just know that the future is unpredictable and you cant always expect something to go smooth. Whatever obstacles coming you have to face them, with that being said, we live on present so don't just focus on the future because you don't know if tomorrow's your last day. Make full use of today doing things for yourself for today as well as for the future.

This is me seeing people living for these 3 basics timeline of them.Signing off I just want to say that we should balance the 3 reasons of living. Lessons from past, smile for the present, plan and work for brighter future.