What is it about characters and personality? most of you probably have an idea about what is it. What about them that they are imperative for me to talk about them.
First, characteristics are what others see you as, what people look at you as who you are. Example- your clothes, appearances make up and all, your taste of attires, cars, gadgets and sometimes even your habits and behaviours can constitute to it. Talking too much or too loud. Passive while spending whole day lying on bed, quiet and anti social. Many more. You can think about your own characteristics by now right?
Picture a guy, very messy wavy long hair, smoking a cigar, wearing brown dirty leather accouterments, with a guitar in his hand. What will your perception of his be? commonly you will think he is an uneducated musician who is kind of atrocious, a lazy one perhaps.
Second, how personality comes, this is something which is inside a person, a trait, or the heart, the interest. It cant really be change. Like someone who really likes kids. A boy who is very soft and teary. A strong woman.Natural athlete who likes to play all sports. A straight forward guy who does not know how to lie or how to care about people feelings. Being too matured for own age. High IQ level. Interests and passions. And so much of that by now I hope you can figure out yours.
So regarding the guy above, now imagine he is actually a very rich master of applied maths in a world known University, dressing neatly with shirts and shoes on campus. He is a very kind dad who always help his family, other people also donates to charity. But every time he hangs out somewhere with his friend, he wants to appear how he wants public to see him, not as a professor.
Characteristics might be deceiving, but it is what people will see you first. Whats the importance of characters that it differs from personality. Characters can be change. You just need the proper motivation and determination for it. Smoking habits, drugs, taste of clothes, daily activities, flirting, bad temper- all of these can change for a cause or maybe with time. On contrary personality cant be change, a guy who likes kids will always likes kids because its in his heart. You cant asked someone who likes arts drawing painting to stop drawing and play sports. I think that pretty much explain everything.
In conclusion, there is limit in changing. There is so much you can change but if you try to change your personality, you will be torturing yourself. People need to accept you of your personality, not your characters. But the fact that Changes -for you people, just know that one day you will find your logic to change, either its someone or something happen with your life. What ever you think you are doing is not right, quit and starts doing the right thing. Because one day you might lose something that you love the most and its too late, you will anguish how your life passed and how much you want to change it if you can. Its never too late to change
First, characteristics are what others see you as, what people look at you as who you are. Example- your clothes, appearances make up and all, your taste of attires, cars, gadgets and sometimes even your habits and behaviours can constitute to it. Talking too much or too loud. Passive while spending whole day lying on bed, quiet and anti social. Many more. You can think about your own characteristics by now right?
Picture a guy, very messy wavy long hair, smoking a cigar, wearing brown dirty leather accouterments, with a guitar in his hand. What will your perception of his be? commonly you will think he is an uneducated musician who is kind of atrocious, a lazy one perhaps.
Second, how personality comes, this is something which is inside a person, a trait, or the heart, the interest. It cant really be change. Like someone who really likes kids. A boy who is very soft and teary. A strong woman.Natural athlete who likes to play all sports. A straight forward guy who does not know how to lie or how to care about people feelings. Being too matured for own age. High IQ level. Interests and passions. And so much of that by now I hope you can figure out yours.
So regarding the guy above, now imagine he is actually a very rich master of applied maths in a world known University, dressing neatly with shirts and shoes on campus. He is a very kind dad who always help his family, other people also donates to charity. But every time he hangs out somewhere with his friend, he wants to appear how he wants public to see him, not as a professor.
Characteristics might be deceiving, but it is what people will see you first. Whats the importance of characters that it differs from personality. Characters can be change. You just need the proper motivation and determination for it. Smoking habits, drugs, taste of clothes, daily activities, flirting, bad temper- all of these can change for a cause or maybe with time. On contrary personality cant be change, a guy who likes kids will always likes kids because its in his heart. You cant asked someone who likes arts drawing painting to stop drawing and play sports. I think that pretty much explain everything.
In conclusion, there is limit in changing. There is so much you can change but if you try to change your personality, you will be torturing yourself. People need to accept you of your personality, not your characters. But the fact that Changes -for you people, just know that one day you will find your logic to change, either its someone or something happen with your life. What ever you think you are doing is not right, quit and starts doing the right thing. Because one day you might lose something that you love the most and its too late, you will anguish how your life passed and how much you want to change it if you can. Its never too late to change
