Success with a big S. Its meaning differ from people to people. What I meant with a capital S is the success in life. You succeed your life when you feel like you are ready to go, arbitrarily die smiling.
So, how do you succeed? Achieve these 4 things:-
1. Academic
- one can say that they are successful based on their academic records. Obviously its what people nowadays really emphasise on it, even candidate for election must have good academic tracks. Even parents are proud if their children aced their exams. Why academic is momentous? 1. it does say that you have a fast learning brain and 2. It says that you are dedicated and willing to be hardworking. Anyway people who donnishly succeed has succeed one part of life.
2. Morality
- morality.. self righteousness.. conscience or whatever you want to call it, living with it is a success itself. To answer why first we must know what is moral? It is concerned with principles of right and wrong or conforming to standards of behavior and character based on those principles. So people who can live with their moral high means that they successfully living as what they think is right, what they their nature think its right, what they think others will think its right. Imagine a rich happy living easily but deep inside he always feel that what he is doing is wrong and in the end he died thinking that he did the wrong thing. Thus, you are consider success if you can live up to your chaste.
3. Life skills
- Having a lots of life skills make you triumph. As much as you can you should learn, any skill and knowledge is useful. For the obvious choice for life like cooking, sewing, fixing things, computer skills, camping and etc. And then there is art finesse - drawing, painting, writing, carving or anything related. There is physical aptitude sports and such and the biggest life skill is the human skill - communication, social, public speaking and many more. Human skill what makes a leader or a politician. Try gain as many skills as you can (learn!) and if you know you have the human skill means you have the voice to influence others therefore you have a responsibility.
4. Mission and vision
- success is not success in the first place if you don't even have a mission, vision, target, goal... There's no use for a runner to sweat panting run as fast as he could without knowing where to go. In your life, you must have a mission, normally one very big with other small ones. The big one is something you hope to achieve in a very long time such as becoming a heart surgeon get married to the love of your life with many kids. Or having your voice heard by the world so that you can do something about world peace. Or building your name to fame so that you be remembered after you die. Or a sustained company under your name that your next of kin and the next and the next of them will take care of-ensuring your whole bloodlines will live easily. The small ones include passing your coming exams, finishing 1st place in a competition or anything actually. When you have a mission and a vision, then you will strive very hard for it.. and when you do achieve it, you know you have been successful in your life because that's what you always wanted for your life from the beginning.

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